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Do everything in love.
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IF ONLY’S AND WHAT IF’S
Have you ever wondered why it is so hard to live in the present? I know for a fact that my spaghetti brain may start in the present, but...
theaddictswife2020
Nov 5, 20242 min read
You Find What You Are Looking For
I can read your mind right now. You are thinking I'm a stalker and follow my husband around looking for his substance of choice. The...
theaddictswife2020
Sep 25, 20243 min read
How I Survived My Riptide
It has always amazed me how God can speak to me through nature. Maybe it is the only time I am still enough to listen, but whatever the...
theaddictswife2020
Aug 27, 20243 min read
No Situation is too Hopeless!
My parents introduced me to Jesus at a very early age and I spent most of my adult life as a follower of Christ. In recovery the...
theaddictswife2020
Aug 17, 20243 min read
ME FIRST!!!
As I began my recovery, I repeatedly heard the term “self-care”, and the importance of maintaining it in your life. My first thought was...
theaddictswife2020
Aug 8, 20243 min read
Don't let Peanut Butter Get You Off Your Program.
I take my recovery very seriously and do my very best to stay within the guidelines and recommendations of my program. I start almost...
theaddictswife2020
Aug 3, 20243 min read
Why Do I Always Have to Be Right?
If you were to ask me if I am stubborn, I would happily justify any of my actions to prove otherwise. I would argue that it is...
theaddictswife2020
Jul 7, 20242 min read
YOU CAN’T FIX STUPID!
I know what you are thinking. Is she seriously calling her husband stupid for the whole world to hear? Absolutely NOT. Now don’t get...
theaddictswife2020
Jun 12, 20242 min read
Zeke the Screaming Goat
I am certainly not a farmer, but at times I have tried to be one. Living on a couple acres allows for some adventures, and purchasing a...
theaddictswife2020
Apr 7, 20244 min read


Cornhole Bag to the Cranium?
Yup, he said it. The inevitable question that is asked by most addicts at some point. "How has my addiction affected you?" We were...
theaddictswife2020
Mar 18, 20243 min read


Is it really a disease?
One of the most controversial subjects I have come across through recovery is whether or not addiction is a disease. I know the first...
theaddictswife2020
Mar 4, 20243 min read


If he REALLY loves me, he will just stop!
Why won't he/she just stop? Haven't we all asked ourselves this question? For the family member, this has become the million-dollar...
theaddictswife2020
Feb 22, 20242 min read


Hand Me That Wrench?
One of the first concepts of recovery that I was able to quickly grasp was to make sure I had a well stocked toolbox. I have worked in...
theaddictswife2020
Feb 4, 20243 min read


WHAT NOW????
Here we are in a place many of us never imagined we would be. If you are anything like me, you ended up at your destination with a lot of...
theaddictswife2020
Jan 9, 20243 min read


IT IS TIME TO START LIVING RATHER THAN JUST SURVIVING
New Year, New Me! Come on, I guarantee I am not the only one that has used this cute cliche as the new year begins. I said it with pure...
theaddictswife2020
Jan 4, 20243 min read


Navigating the Unexpected this Christmas
I don’t know if any of you are like me, but I absolutely despise surprises. I’m not sure if it comes from some unresolved trauma I had as...
theaddictswife2020
Dec 24, 20233 min read


It is OKAY to ask for help!
Why are we so ashamed to ask for help when we have a loved one suffering from Addiction? One of the most difficult four-letter words for...
theaddictswife2020
Dec 12, 20233 min read


I HAVE A MOUSE IN MY HOUSE 🐭😳😩😱👎🏻😵
Battling the Fear of the Unknown Every Momma’s happy place is to have all her children under her roof during the Holidays. So, I felt...
theaddictswife2020
Dec 5, 20233 min read


How Can I Choose Joy When There is So Much Pain Around Me?
My JOY Factory is Immense. I don't wait for joy, I manufacture my own. -Jonathan Lockwood Huie I learned a new word today in my recovery...
theaddictswife2020
Nov 29, 20233 min read


BOUNDARIES
Saying YES to the Right Things, and NO to the Wrong Things! When I think of the word boundary, the first thing that comes to my mind is a...
theaddictswife2020
Nov 24, 20233 min read
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